Goblins' Code of Conduct

Last modified: May 27, 2026

We love a Goblin who reads the fine print, so you’re already off to a strong start!

We exist to make genuine connection easier, whether that’s friendship, gaming buddies, or something that grows naturally over time. That only works when everyone feels safe, respected, and free to show up as themselves. So! By joining Goblins, you pinky-promise (and legally agree to) to uphold the following standards:

I. Respect Everyone

No hate speech, harassment, bullying, or discrimination. Ever.

We welcome Goblins of all genders, identities, orientations, and backgrounds. Kindness, curiosity, and good-faith engagement go a long way here.

Disagreement is allowed. Dehumanization is not.

This standard applies to everyone without exception- including how you treat other members, moderators, and our team. We're all people here and we hold everyone to the same standards, and that includes you.

A note we feel strongly about: being neurodivergent is a valid and welcome part of who you are, and we genuinely want Goblins to be a space where you can show up as yourself. That said, neurodivergence is not a free pass to be unkind or disrespectful to others. We hold everyone to the same baseline, because everyone in this community deserves to feel safe.

II. Give People the Benefit of the Doubt

People misspeak sometimes, it’s only human. If something feels off, ask questions before jumping to conclusions. Most misunderstandings come from tone, wording, or crossed wires– not bad intent.

At the same time, impact still matters so if someone tells you they were hurt or uncomfortable by something you said, pause, listen, and apologize if needed. Try to understand what landed wrong instead of doubling down.

Frustration is human and you're allowed to feel and express it — but directing blame at others or being disrespectful crosses a line. There's a big difference between saying "I felt hurt by that" and going on the attack. The first opens a conversation; the second shuts it down.

We’re all here to get better at talking to each other. Curiosity, humility, and course-correction go a long way.

III. Keep Jokes Inclusive and PG13

Playful snark and sarcasm are fine but nudity, explicit sexual content, or graphic violence (whether directed at yourself or others) is not acceptable.

If it wouldn’t be okay at your family’s dinner table, it doesn’t belong here either.

IV. Respect Privacy
Don’t share personal information — yours or anyone else’s — without clear permission. No doxxing. No pressure for off-platform contact.

V. Be Mindful With Heavy Topics

Venting is okay in moderation. Trauma dumping is not. Curious about the difference between the two? Here’s a good read!

Check whether someone has the capacity before sharing anything heavy and respect when someone doesn’t– and be mindful of not not bogarting the conversation accordingly. That’s not fair to others.

Please remember that Goblins is not designed to provide crisis or mental-health support.

If you’re struggling, please seek support from trusted people or professionals. You can find local crisis resources at https://findahelpline.com.

You matter, and the world is better with you in it.

VI. Discussion Over Debate

Different perspectives are welcome. Arguing to win, dismissing lived experience, or turning conversations into debates isn’t aligned with the Goblins spirit.

Ask people questions and make sure you’re not talking more than they are!

VII. No Thirsty or Deceptive Behavior

Goblins is not your personal candy shop. That means:

NO sexually aggressive messages
NO pressuring people into flirting, calls, or private chats
NO pretending to want friendship when your only goal is hooking up
NO asking other Goblins for money, financial assistance, or gifts — ever. This includes sob stories, "temporary" loans, or anything that puts financial pressure on another member.
NO manipulating filters, tags, or profiles to access people under false pretenses
NO desperation, guilt-tripping, thirstiness, or boundary-pushing

Be open to letting attraction grow naturally and always be honest about your intentions.

VIII. Communicate Clearly- No Ghosting

Goblins values clarity and consideration.

If you’ve been chatting with someone for a while, made plans, or things feel established, and something changes, whether your interest, availability, or circumstances, communicate that rather than disappearing.

We get that honesty can feel awkward and uncomfortable but reverting to silence after meaningful interaction is confusing and often hurtful to the other person. A short, kind message closing the loop goes a long way.

Psst: If you’re unsure how to communicate clearly, Introflirt U includes guides and message templates for handling awkward convos (including letting someone know you’re no longer interested in staying in touch)
Ghosting and prolonged non-communication run counter to the values of this community.

If you’re unsure what to say, we’re here to help– you can always send us a note at HQ@LikeGoblins.com or @ the team in our Discord server.

IX. Make Goblins a Place We’re Proud Of

Community is what makes Goblins special so look out for each other.

Report bad behavior, and leave spaces better than you found them.

Strive to be the kind of Goblin others enjoy interacting with.

X. Enforcement & Community Standards

Goblins is built around respect, curiosity, and real human connection. Those aren’t optional.

If you undermine the safety of the community, ignore boundaries, or treat Goblins like a hunting ground, you may receive warnings, suspensions, or permanent removal from the platform.

We are not the other apps, and that's intentional. We take safety seriously, and we act quickly when lines are crossed.

And as a reminder, if you want help learning how to connect thoughtfully online (and off), Introflirt University was personally created by Lise (our founder) as a resource to help folks do exactly that!